This summer two of our daughters join the ranks of many who will spend their summer working at camp. They were home from college for a month, but will be gone for the remainder of the summer with enough time to come home, go on a family vacation, and get packed back up to head back to Cedarville University.
Our oldest daughter is spending the summer working at Lake Ann as a counselor-where Dave went went to camp when he was growing up, and our middle daughter is working at Scioto Hills-the same camp I went to and worked at when I was growing up, and where my parents are currently volunteering. What treasured memories I have from camp. God works in great ways at camp all while making wonderful memories and making great friends.
As excited for them as I am that they are so willingly serving the Lord this way, I still hate to say good-bye. I know they will be back and I know I will see them both during the time they are gone, but I still hate to say good-bye.
I tell them and remind myself at the same time, “They are growing up and becoming the young ladies I raised them to be.” Growth brings change and tears. Growth and maturity also come with a price tag.
I am reminded of a tearful good-bye in Acts 20:36, 37 “And when he had said these things, he knelt down and prayed with them all. And there was much weeping on the part of all; they embraced Paul and kissed him.” The Apostle Paul was moved with emotion to the point of tears when he said good-bye to those he ministered to in Ephesus. Paul spent hours pouring his life into many people during his life after his conversion. After that much time investing and loving, there is a sense of loss during the good-bye. This feeling of loss over the separation of distance shows that a true heart connection is made. A valuable relationship is formed. A treasured bond that is inseparable despite the miles was established. Despite the heartache and the sadness with the good-bye, the beauty of the relationship is seen with those tears.
As I miss my girls this summer and cry over our separation of distance, I also have a sense of pride over what they are doing with their lives. I see them carrying on the things that are important in life: loving Jesus and loving people. No matter the sacrifice, no matter the loneliness, no matter the challenges in the end this is what matters.
Right before Paul said his tearful good-by to the people of Ephesus in Acts 20, he reminded the people, “…It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35). Paul willingly gave all that He had to serve our Lord: to love Jesus and love people. He lived out this verse.
As I miss my girls this summer, I know that they are right where God wants them, doing the work of the ministry. There is much joy in my sadness and to be honest the sadness shows the beauty of the relationship. So as we shed tears on behalf of those we miss, don’t be embarrassed by the tears, rather relish them and treasure them for they show how valuable that relationship really is.